The first thing I thought when I realized I was falling in love with my
best friend was, Sh*t. It happened right before my eyes: the guy sitting
across the table, who I used to text about the really awkward dates I
went on, transformed into the person I wanted to be kissing at the end
of the night. It was an electric feeling — like I got zapped — and
suddenly I realized everything was about to change in a big way.
When
you start to date your best friend, you gain a lot: a protector,
undeniable confidence, and a feverish determination to make your
relationship work. But you also lose a lot and learn a lot. Read on to
find out why taking on the challenge is a tough feat, but at the end of
the day, totally worth it.
1. You'll Know Exactly What the Other Person's Thinking, All the Time
You
don't need to bother trying to read your own best friend's mind because
you already know what he or she is about to say. So while a
relationship with somebody new often involves a lot of overanalyzing and
sending nerve-racking texts, you won't have to play the guessing game
this time around.
2. Having Sex Is Funny . . . at First
After
exchanging so many stories about sexual encounters you had with other
people, you probably never imagined you'd be doing this with each other.
But you're comfortable enough to laugh at the fact that, yes, it's
happening now, and it feels pretty wild. But after you've been intimate a
few times, the giggling will subside, the romance will kick in, and the
sex will probably be pretty darn good.
3. You'll Wish There Were More Hours in the Day
Time:
you're going to want more of it. At first, you won't be able to get
enough of each other. Now you can do the things you've always done as
friends and things people do as more than friends. While you'll want to
spend the whole day together, there are other people in your life who
need your lovin' too, like family and the rest of your buddies. Don't
forget it.
4. You Won't Stop Making Fun of Each Other
If
you've always made fun of his obsession with that one childish video
game and he's always picked on you for wearing that "weird"
man-repelling top, it's not going to stop now. The only difference is
that the teasing will probably end with a kiss on the forehead instead
of a playful punch in the arm.
5. There's a Constant Fear You Live With
You
could lose the most important person in your life — the one who plays
the part of your best friend and boyfriend or girlfriend. If you're
fighting with him or her, you might have to tap your mom or another
friend for advice. You try not to think about what would happen if this
all doesn't work out, but sometimes you do, and sometimes a mighty pang
of anxiety comes along with it.
6. Dinner Plans Will Be Incredibly Easy
Planning
your first dinner "date" will go something like this: "Wanna get pizza
from that place we tried that time?" "Yeah." And you'll probably split
the bill, just like you always have. And you'll feel totally comfortable
stuffing your face in front of each other, just like you always have.
7. You'll Fight a Lot Sooner Than You Expected
You've
never been afraid to tell this person how you feel, and that's not
about to change now that you've entered a romantic relationship. If
you're angry about something, there's less of a chance you'll hide it
and more of a chance you'll lay it on the line. Your best friend already
knows what irks you and when to stop pushing your buttons. And you
won't hesitate to remind them, lest they forget.
8. You'll Start to Care About How You Look in Front of Them, Even If You Didn't Before
Your
best friend's probably seen you in your sweats with no makeup on plenty
of times. Because really, you never put a second thought into how you
looked. But now, you'll have fun getting dressed up and feeling sexy in
front of your SO. There's a newfound level of attraction there, and
you'll really enjoy it.
9. It's Worth It
No one
ever tells you to go ahead and fall in love with your best friend
because of the risk factor. If all goes wrong and things end badly,
there's the chance you'll lose someone who's a very important part of
your life. But you'll also never know a bond as strong as the one you
share with someone who truly cares about you, supports you, laughs with
you, and also happens to be in love with you. There are a lot of crazy
decisions you'll make in life. If you get the chance, you should totally
let this be one of them.
Source: http://www.afroparrot.com/2017/06/9-awkward-things-that-happens-when-you.html
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