Lawyer and activist, Emeka Ugwuonye shared his client's
story of domestic abuse. The victim, Mrs Favour Ogbonna, has endured
physical and mental abuse from her husband since they got married in
2015. In fact, the beating started barely a month after their wedding.
The latest incident which occurred last June led to the loss of their twins. Read her story below:
MY ORDEAL IN MARRIAGE 2015 - 2017
Good morning! My name is Favour Ogbonna. I married and
wedded on the 22nd 23rd of August, 2015 and return to my husband's
place after our traditional marriage. My ordeal started just a month
after.
Sept 2015 : a month after I was beaten up by my husband in
the present of his mother bcos my daddy called him on the phone n they
were discussing at the end he requested for provision but he was joking.
My husband called his mother and started insulting my parents n i told
him to stop insulting them he started beating
me.
March 2016 :I went for antinental and was given bill which
I paid. The next day my husband ask me how much I spent and I told him,
he said that the bill is too much why didn't I price and I told him
that is not easy to argue for bills in the hospital. He started beating
me and I rushed to my uncle who called him and cautioned him and we went
back to the house.
April 2016 :I over heard my husband discussing on the phone with his friend, after the discussion, my husband started insulting me and my parents:I asked, him to stop that he started beating me and he seized everything he bought for me and ask me to go. This issue was settled by our marriage parents.
April 2016 :I over heard my husband discussing on the phone with his friend, after the discussion, my husband started insulting me and my parents:I asked, him to stop that he started beating me and he seized everything he bought for me and ask me to go. This issue was settled by our marriage parents.
May 2016 :my husband was annoyed that some of his clothes
which he washed and spread outside were forgotten, for this reason he
kept me hungry for two days. I nearly lost my pregnancy bcos of hunger.
His sister settled this issue.
July 2016 :I was beaten and stripped naked in open yard in
the morning. In the evening of the same day, I was also beaten
mercilessly. Later, my husband ran away for three days I was left
without food and I was forced to pack all my belongings to my father's
house.
Sept 2016 : my husband came to my father's house and
revealed why he has not been happy with me and my parents. He said that I
belong to CULT GROUP, that he was informed that I am harlot agent while
in the University, that he wanted to terminate the marriage long ago
but because of the pregnancy he didn't do it.
June
2017 :this date is unforgettable in my life. I was so mercilessly
battered by my husband that I felt unconscious with blood gushing all
over my body, still he held me on the ground and continued beating me.
It took the intervention of a passing by which his sister called before I
was rescued a life.
The mother of my husband is against the marriage because according to her I'm not from their side.The irony of the whole thing now is that my husband is accusing me of infidelity and he is now questioning the paternity of the 13 months old baby. And I sued him to court.
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